We are connected, but not always.
There are times where we will be more connected to some and less to others.
Why? Because we aren’t perfect. We ebb and flow in and out of skewed perceptions, and we naturally gravitate towards those who are physically and mentally aligned with us at the moment.
Yet we don’t like change, we don’t like the idea of free falling, so we create structure and stability, and anchor ourselves as much as possible to people that we find compatible, even if the truth is that it is just in the moment.
And then, it is literally up to luck, fate or whatever higher forces at play that determine whether enough amounts of change creep in to break your structures apart.
If you are cruel to me today, with others, even though that hurts; that’s okay.
Unless you are born apathetical, only ignorance and hurt equal to hurting others in return.
You were never given the ability to understand me and all the things I went through.
It’s likely you never will.
And I accept that,
remembering that beyond my hurt ego, there is someone who connected with me way more naturally than you could, and that’s what hurt you.
If you ever are in need of an advice, it’s this:
Just accept being born as you.
I have. And I hope one day you will too.